Thursday, July 18, 2013

You Can Make A Difference

I started this blog yesterday and entitled it with "You can make a difference". Then got caught in meetings for the rest of the day.  It so happened that what I wanted to write about, I had it experienced that gives this blog much more meaning and impact.

If we continue to expose ourselves to events of the world, it can be quite disheartening and somewhat morbid.  Read about what's happening in Egypt, floods in China, school children dying in India because of food poisoning, people being murdered in Syria, North Korea demanding that their ship be released etc.  If we subject ourselves daily to these, it does affects us. Sometimes the effects can be felt in our lives.  Sometimes it manifests as fear, depression and it can immobilise us that we withdraw into our own cave for safety.

But this blog is about 'you can make a difference'.  No matter who you are, you can make a difference. If you are alive today, you can make a difference. If you are breathing, you can make a difference.  It's a choice we make "daily" to make a positive difference in people's lives - by adding value, moving people forward and by the very words we speak. 

Let me share my story about what happened yesterday.

After a couple of meetings, I spent the rest of the afternoon at Coffee Bean Greenbelt, wrote my blog and responded to few emails.  Upon entering Coffee Bean, I noticed few young professionals to my left - they smiled at me. Then, I ordered my double chocolate ice coffee and found a seat in the corner to start my blog.  After a few minutes, I noticed that they kept looking at me... not sure if they have ever seen a foreigner before but I tried to focus with what I was doing.

After a while I noticed one of the young ladies making her way over to my table, started a conversation and was asked if I could share my table with her. She wanted to know if I wanted to buy property in Manila. They are Sales Consultants for a company in Manila. After telling her that I wasn't interested in purchasing a property, I got to ask her questions about her life. This was truly a God moment.  She was so inspired by our conversation that she returned to her friends and about 15 minutes later, two friends came over to talk to me. Their opening line was "my friend's life has so changed, we want to talk to you". 
The first young lady emailed me last night and this is what she said "I'm the one you met earlier at Coffee Bean. I would just like to share that just by meeting you and speaking to you for a few minutes really made an impact in my life. You somehow uplifted my spirit again. 

I remember mentioning to you earlier that I've been stuck in a rut for quite some time now and just the other day I really was asking for guidance from the Lord. I asked him to show me any signs or point it out to me that there's more to all the bad things that I've been experiencing lately and I can get through this no matter how hard it gets. You see, I'm used to feeling so low. It happens to me quite often.. I really prayed for guidance this time and its amazing that I met you! What are the odds, right?! Its amazing how it happened. I never expected it. 

Talking to you earlier gave me a spiritual boost again. Your aura and your words really made an impact. I know I still need more of that. I hope to see you soon and be able to speak to you again and hear you talk. You are amazing. I hope to be the same for everyone in the near future. Thank you, Bernhard."

I am looking forward to meeting them next week with their friends. 

We can all make a difference by making ourselves available to people.  Listen, inspire and motivate people in their calling and destiny.  Let the words that leaves your mouth make a positive impact and bring change to the amazing people around us.  My challenge to you today is to make a positive difference to your sphere of influence. Find one person to believe in. Find one person to encourage. Find one person to motivate and inspire.  

You can make a difference!


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